It doesn’t happen all that often. Mostly I’m just so grateful to be His. But that day was different and I wasn’t liking it. I know He can handle the rest of the mess. The fear. The ache. But this? Anger? At Him?
I tried to pretend I was okay with the situation. I didn’t want to express the anger. Didn’t want to feel it. I love Him. I need Him. I don’t want to shout at Him.
“I trust you.” I do. But maybe not enough to obey when he urges honesty: “Let it come. It needs to come out.”
I try to hide: “I’m not really angry.”
He finds me: “Then why did you uncheck that song on itunes?”
We both know the answer already, but His question demands a response. Fine then: “I don’t want to listen to that song because it clashes too hard with my reality. It makes me want to yell at you and I don’t want to do that. “
I don’t say what I’m thinking, that just today I don’t want to lie still in his presence either (will the silence break me open?) That today I’m even afraid to ask for help, afraid that if he doesn’t answer quickly enough the unanswered questions will all rush out and I’ll find myself vomiting the contents of my churning heart all over his bright white holiness.
The story I’m (now) glad I overheard
It happened as they were driving up the ramp onto the ferry. Sensing something not right, she had just taken the baby out of his carseat. “If anything went wrong, I wanted him on my lap.” She still felt the same when she was telling the story the day after she had sat long in the car with the windows down. The day after she had thrown away her shorts spoiled by her baby’s bellyful of purple cherries.
“When something goes wrong, I want you on my lap.” Not strapped down. Not turned away. He’d rather have a lapful of purple cherries than have me out of his reach (and where’s that, anyway?). Rather have us beating our little fists on his chest than turning away to ache alone.
“Long enough, GOD—
you’ve ignored me long enough.
I’ve looked at the back of your head
long enough. Long enough
I’ve carried this ton of trouble,
lived with a stomach full of pain.
Long enough my arrogant enemies
have looked down their noses at me.
. . . . .
Take a good look at me, GOD, my God;
I want to look life in the eye,
So no enemy can get the best of me
or laugh when I fall on my face.
. . . . .
I’ve thrown myself headlong into your arms—
I’m celebrating your rescue.
I’m singing at the top of my lungs,
I’m so full of answered prayers.”
(Psalm 13, The Message)
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I have felt like this. It is so difficult to express. Thank you for sharing!
Thanks, Amanda. Grace to you!
Thank you for these thoughts and your honesty. It wakes me up to some of my own emotions I have been pretending not to have lately. Makes me think of the name of God’s people…Israel, who wrestles with God. I so appreciate your blog, dear sister!
Katie, I love that reminder of Israel being one who wrestled with God. Thank you!
Thanks for expressing what I’m afraid to even admit to myself at times.
Thank God for His understanding!
Yes, I’m so grateful for grace!
Dearest Little Love
Thank you for your honesty (letting it all out) – I must say, I can’t imagine you angry!
I envy your closeness to the Lord – may the Lord continue to bless you and make you a blessing to others.
Thanks, Dad, for blessing me with this comment. There’s a lot in me that I don’t like to see! It makes me so grateful for gracious love. . . God’s and yours and Mom’s and other people’s. Love, Care
Wow! Great imagery! Thank you for this!