What to do with mixed motives

dsc_0061I can’t help but wonder: Why, after Peter had gotten over the shock of seeing Jesus walking towards them on the water, did he ask to join him in that adventure?
What was behind Peter’s request, impetuous Peter who later cut off the ear of the soldier in the garden, who resisted Jesus washing his feet and then wanted his whole self washed, who, the first time he saw Jesus after he had denied that he knew him, when he happened to be in a boat and saw Jesus on the shore, put his heavier clothes back on and jumped into the water, running to Jesus.
What motivated his request in the middle of this dark, stormy night, to come to Jesus on the water? Could he just not wait the few more seconds to be close to Jesus? Or was it bravado? A need to feel significant or prove himself special or worthy of love and respect? A sense of adventure? A desire to be with Jesus and do as he did? Or some mix of all of these in various unidentified proportions?
The wondering came as I was puzzling over something in my own story. How do I hold together the sense that God called me to Afghanistan and that I went out of love for him with the awareness (that I didn’t see at the time) that I was probably also trying to prove myself loveable or worthy or special or important or somehow find my place in the world?
It seems like such grace and generosity from our creative and very adventuresome Master that Jesus didn’t try to sort through all the layers of motivation, of brokenness mixed with love and desire. It was enough that somewhere in the mix was Peter’s desire to be with Jesus, and Jesus responded to that. Peter asked Jesus to call him to come, and Jesus said, “Of course. Come. Always.”
It feels like an invitation to me too, not to bother trying to dissect all the layers of my motivation, just to ask Jesus for what I want—him to call me close—and trust him to see and honor the truest level of my desire.
Jesus knows that being close to him is exactly what is needed to take care of those other bits in the mix.

This Post Has 5 Comments

  1. momfan

    Lovely thoughts!

  2. Elaine

    He takes us as we are. What a blessing!

  3. Erin

    I needed these words today. Thanks.

  4. rdmorris rdmorris

    Another helpful reflection. It brought to mind Paul’s discussion of others’ mixed motive in preaching Christ (Phil.1:15-19). For him the bottom line is “Christ is proclaimed”. I have learned with you not to try and sort out my motives but judge them by final outcomes.
    With thanks,

  5. Bonita Grace Dirk

    Wow! Very powerful, I do often worry about my mixed motives. Perhaps I need not worry so much and should rather realize, as you say, that being close to Jesus is the cure for all the other less than ideal motives. Thank you for this encouragement!

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